Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Then and Now…

We bought our house about 7, maybe 8 years ago.  I come from a family of renters.  I personally moved every 4-6 years of my life.  My parents bought their first home when I started High School, so I was pretty familiar with renting and all that comes with it.  My poor husband never really moved until he married me, and then was thrust rather rudely into the world of pack-it-up and move-it-out.  After several years of marriage, several moves through various cities, towns, states, we finally reached a point where we could think of settling down and buying a house.
We lived in the area for almost 1 year exactly when we came to that decision.  I happened to be on vacation, and decided that was as good a time to start looking as any.  Being a realistic person, I figured it would take at least a year to find something we would even consider, let alone go through the process of buying.
It started out simple enough.  I looked at various listing in the local papers and online.  I also took note of several places with signs out front, crossing each place off the list for various reasons…too small, not enough yard, not the right location…all pretty normal.  I finally came across a house that was listed for sale.  The description, price, location and size were enough to convince us to take a look.  So, on that fateful day on my vacation, I made the call.
Turned out the house was not meant for us.  Built in the 20’s, it still had knob and tube electric, complete with the cloth covered wires and Christmas Story fuse box.  There were other issues but basically it was a no-go.  However, our Realtor, a lovely lady, had caught that whiff of “If you find it they will buy”.  Taking note of our wishes and our willingness to do some work, she was hot on the trail – looking for that ‘perfect’ place.   As it happened, she had about 3 other listings that peaked our interest.  We arranged to get together to see them.  As luck would have it, I managed to get hold of my father, and he agreed to come up to take a look with us – to give us some insight on issues that we might not see.  (Dad has done some construction work on houses we lived in as well as a part time job when he retired.)
Again, the first couple of houses were ok, but nothing to write home about.  Finally, the Realtor suggested a house that came on the market that morning…it was further north than we were looking, but it had land – something we wanted.
They say when you find the house you are meant to buy you know it.  It is true.  The minute we walked in the house, all I could utter was “oh my  god” over and over again.  From the minute we walked in the house I knew exactly what furniture would go where, what curtains to hang, what color to paint…it was all there.  Needless to say we bought the house and were moved in within two months of my initial “lets look at houses” moment.
Is it the house I had imagined I would be living?  Nope.  Not even close.  Is it the house I dreamed of?  Again, nope.  But I love this house.  Every perfection, every fault, every inch, I love. Slowly we are making the changes that make it the house of my dreams, but if we changed nothing  at all I would still love this house.
While we were in the process of buying, I came out to the house while it was being inspected.  I took several pictures so that I could let my mother and my in-laws see the house.  I came across those pictures the other day.  This evening, after the kids were asleep, I wandered around the yard, taking new pictures of the outside and find myself comparing them to the originals.  I find it amazing how much things have changed in what I think of as such a short time.  Equally amazing is how much has not changed. 
We moved into this house with 3 cats and two dogs.  Today, only one of the original cats is still with us.  We still have 2 cats and two dogs – as they replaced themselves as animals will do.  We have added two small children into the mix as well.    Had you told me years ago that I would be living in this area, in this house and with two children, I would have laughed in your face.
But now I could not begin to imagine being anywhere else…

And in case you are wondering, I still love this house…

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